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EMBRACE BEAUTY. EMBRACE YOU.

OKLAHOMA CITY's PREMIER BOUDOIR PHOTOGRAPHER

A LITTLE BIT ABOUT US

OKLAHOMA'S #1 BOUDOIR STUDIO

We are Red Stiletto, an all-women team dedicated to empowering women from all walks of life. Our award-winning team is located in Norman, OK, and we proudly serve the Oklahoma City metro area, the state, and beyond.

We have had the privilege of serving thousands of women in our studio for boudoir sessions. We welcome women of all body types, ethnicities, and stages of life.  Our mission is to show as many women as possible that they are beautiful, just the way they are!

TESTIMONIALS FROM REAL CLIENTS

LOVE NOTES

"You are the most important person in your life."

MISS H

"The value here was just so much more than everywhere else."

MISS T

"It just felt really good to have somebody take care of me."

MISS L

SO WHAT'S THE BIG DEAL...

WHY BOUDOIR PHOTOGRAPHY?

Often people asked me, “Why Boudoir? Why do you have to take photos of women in underwear when they can look so beautiful in a fancy gown or a lovely outfit?”

While this is true, I have, can, and will take photos of women in beautiful outfits, there is something so raw about stripping down to the girl who is always there at the end of the day.

There is something so powerful about becoming vulnerable and bold enough to push through that desire to hate what you have and wish for something “better”. To expose and embrace every stretch mark, every scar, and every “imperfection” with love, kindness, and appreciation. 

A session without all the clothes, without all the inhibitions, and without all the negative self-defeating mental chatter is one of the most brave, scary, beautiful, and freeing moment of a woman’s life.

A Boudoir session is a way of saying, “I choose to love myself…just…as…I am.” I’m not just here to create beautiful imagery, but more importantly to empower women to step boldly into their journey of self-love.

SEE THE TRANSFORMATION

BEFORE & AFTER

I know what you’re thinking: “These women are gorgeous! They have to be models…right? They can’t be everyday women like me…can they?”

These are very good questions, and if you have already made up your mind, you are only half right. You are correct that these women are gorgeous, but they ARE everyday ladies.  These are the women who are on your local PTA, nurses, attorneys, doctors, and SO MUCH MORE!!!

See how she transformed during her boudoir session
See how she transformed during her boudoir session

AND YOU CAN LOOK LIKE THIS TOO!

A Luxury Beauty Experience With Red Stiletto Promotes:

💖 Seeing yourself as others see you: BEAUTIFUL!
💖 Loving yourself as much as others love you!
💖 Finding your inner sexy that never actually left!
💖 Loving yourself as you are right now!
💖 Realizing that it’s ok to pamper yourself every once in a while!
💖 Diving into a transformative experience that lasts a lifetime!

TESTIMONIALS FROM REAL CLIENTS

MORE LOVE NOTES

boudoir testimonial from real women

"I could not be more satisfied!"

“I had the pleasure of working with the ladies from Red Stiletto for a shoot this week and I could not be more satisfied with the experience!” 

“With no prior modeling experience I was slightly nervous, but Whitney was amazing at not only giving direction but making sure that I was also satisfied and comfortable.”

MISS R

boudoir testimonial from real women

"Give boudoir a shot!"

“Working with Whitney was such a privilege, I am so grateful to have met her! She is wonderful, making you feel comfortable and giving plenty of guidance for posing for people who don’t know what to do with their hands (like yours truly).”

“The results from the session really paid off; I was stunned at how good she made me look. I would strongly recommend doing work with Whitney and Red Stiletto, and to give boudoir a shot. It really is something you should try at least once in your life.”

MISS H

boudoir testimonial from real women

"A bucket list item complete!"

“I had SO much fun doing my boudoir session! It’s been a bucket list for me, but I’ve never had the courage to actually do it. Whitney really made me feel comfortable, and would show me how she wanted to me pose when I had no idea what I was trying to do!”

“She was super sweet, and encouraging! I encourage every women who is thinking about doing these to just do it! You won’t regret it, and you won’t believe how beautiful your pictures will be that you’ll get to cherish forever!”

MISS Y

boudoir testimonial from real women

"I felt so confident and empowered in every pose."

“My favorite thing was I felt like my opinion mattered. I was always informed and consulted from hair and makeup to poses to outfits. She was so courteous regarding my comfort level and preferences.”

“I felt confident and empowered in every pose. You could also tell the dynamics of her team was positive and fluid. The whole atmosphere made me feel at ease and really made the difference in a fantastic shoot vs a sub par one.”

MISS K

boudoir testimonial from real women

"Photos blew me away!"

“Whitney was professional from beginning to end, and truly cares about her work. Her photos blew me away the first time I saw them – and I had to have a session with her! “

“Best experience ever, I left feeling so beautiful and it was such a boost of confidence. Don’t think twice, you’ll love the experience!!”

MISS C

boudoir testimonial from real women

"Worth every penny!"

“Signed up for the Dream Couture and wouldn’t go any other way. Makeup artist is great. She didn’t over do it and just made my features pop. The photographer was friendly, non judgmental, helpful, encouraging, and complimentary.”

“The session felt safe and fun. Photographer took a lot of pictures and appreciated that the session didn’t feel rushed. It didn’t feel like just a service was being provided. Worth every penny!”

MISS T

A WALK THROUGH OF OUR SESSIONS

THE EXPERIENCE

There are so many misconceptions about boudoir photography that I want to clear up before we get started…This is an experience you cannot replicate even in your wildest dreams! I’m confident in that, by the time you walk into the studio, you’ll never forget what it feels like to be ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL.

Photo of a woman to show off hair and makeup look

PROFESSIONAL HAIR & MAKEUP

Hair and Makeup are included in in our Dream and Dream Couture Sessions. Not only does this give you some much needed pampering, it also guarantees you will look your best. 

Our makeup artist, Red Stiletto is great at making sure everything looks great for the camera while naturally accentuating the beauty you already possess.

WARDROBE GUIDANCE

We will work together to come up with the perfect outfits for YOU and YOUR body. The better you feel about your outfits, the better your photos will turn out, because one of the best items you can bring to your session is confidence. 

We not only have a list of suggestions on what to wear and where to find those items, we also have an extensive client wardrobe of outfits of every shape, size, and color, and we are happy to share with you!

Oklahoma boudoir portrait by Red Stiletto Boudoir

EXPERT POSING & DIRECTION

We have you covered in the posing department. Very few of our clients are models, so our average client needs help in that department and we are glad to assist! 

We will not only walk you through every pose, but we will demonstrate the pose for you, which our clients find helpful.

INCLUDED WITH EVERY SESSION

WHAT'S INCLUDED?

Complimentary Phone Consultation

Wardrobe Guidance & Client Closet

Professional Hair & Makeup

Expert Posing Guidance

Reveal & Ordering Appointment

Total Privacy

OKLAHOMA BOUDOIR STUDIO

SEE OUR PORTFOLIO

FOR THE AUTHENTIC CELEBRITY-STYLE FINISH

PROFESSIONAL RETOUCHING

All ordered images come with professional retouching. This includes: Skin smoothing, blemish removal, removal of distractions from the background, and overall polishing of the photo. 

  • Before After

TREASURE THE MOMENT FOR DECADES TO COME

REVEAL & ORDERING APPOINTMENT

We have searched the world for only the best quality products to stand the test of time. To accommodate various budgets without compromising the quality we stand by, we offer convenient non-interest payment plans! We never want money to hold you back from the luxury experience you deserve! You will view your images and purchase products at your ordering appointment 1-2 weeks after your session.

READY FOR YOUR CLOSE-UP?

CONTACT US

We’re looking forward to chatting about a boudoir session with you! Fill out the contact form below to connect with us.

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LET'S ANSWER SOME QUESTIONS...

FREQUENTLY ASKED

Yes! Professional hair and makeup are included in the session fee for our Dream and Dream Couture sessions. Our talented stylists ensure you are 100% pampered and photo-ready.

Boudoir photography is a unique experience that goes beyond capturing beauty in outfits. It’s about embracing vulnerability, self-love, and empowering women to appreciate their bodies just as they are.

While the women in our portfolio may exude confidence and beauty, they are everyday individuals – teachers, nurses, attorneys, and more. We celebrate diversity and welcome women from all walks of life.

The Dream Session is our classic offering, providing a luxurious beauty experience at our Norman studio. It includes professional hair and makeup, a 2-hour photo session, and guidance on outfit selection for a day of pampering.

We take client privacy seriously. While we appreciate permission to share photos, we never do so without consent. We respect the confidentiality of our clients, including professionals like teachers and pastors

Yes, all ordered images come with professional retouching, including skin smoothing, blemish removal, background distractions removal, and overall photo polishing for an authentic celebrity-style finish.

You will have a reveal and ordering appointment 1-2 weeks after your session. We offer high-quality products that stand the test of time.

Our studio is located at 226 E Main St in Norman, OK.

If you’re not already in downtown Norman, start by heading towards the city center. Once in downtown Norman, make your way to East Main Street. Keep an eye out for landmarks or cross streets. Travel east on East Main Street. Pass through intersections and stay on East Main Street as you move closer to the destination. When you reach 226 E Main St, you will find the our studio!

We offer on-site wheelchair accessible parking.

We welcome any and all questions you may have! Feel free to reach out to us through our contact form on the website, and we’ll get back to you as soon as possible. Additionally, you can give us a call at 405-561-3873 or send an email to [email protected]. We’re here to ensure you have all the information you need and are excited to assist you on your journey to a empowering boudoir experience. Don’t hesitate to ask – we’re here to help!

OWNER & PHOTOGRAPHER

WHITNEY STILWELL​

Portrait of Whitney, owner & lead photographer of Red Stiletto.

My name is Whitney and my love of photography started from a very young age. My life changed the moment I held a camera for the first time, and I have been a photographer ever since. In college, I started shooting engagements and weddings and over fifteen years later, I’m still going strong!

While I LOVE shooting weddings, I am so thankful for the opportunity I am afforded to empower women to love themselves more through beauty photography. Not only do I get to create beautiful artwork, I also remind women daily how truly unique and beautiful they are right now…in this moment.

OUR LUXURY BOUDOIR EXPERIENCE

DREAM SESSION

Our classic session, the “Dream Session,” gives clients the opportunity for a luxury beauty experience at our beautiful newly renovated studio in downtown Norman, Oklahoma.

As a Dream Session client, prepare for a day of pampering with professional hair and makeup and a 2-hour beauty photo session. We will guide you through the entire experience leading up to your day, covering direction and posing, how to plan and prepare, and guidance on the big question of “What will I wear?!?” 

We look forward to treating you to the luxury experience you deserve!

Oklahoma boudoir portrait by Red Stiletto Boudoir

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Before You Go

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Call us at 405-561-3330

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